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Enlightenment in the City: The place for Spiritually Interested Women who’ve been through a lot and want to enjoy life in the world. Healing doesn’t have to be a lifetime job! |
What do women want? Or rather, what does a woman who’s been through a lot, is open to or has begun the next phase of her destination by walking the Path of Spirituality, need for the next phase of her life? If you’re one of the women that I love to work with, you may find in your own unique way that (not always… each sister has her own unique flavouring, yet):
• You are open and ready to make changes in your life. Sometimes you can be so open and see so many different ways of thinking, it can be hard to know where to start first or who to let in to serve you best in life.
• You are interested in either Enlightenment or Self Development and have either started or are just dipping your toes into the water.
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You feel alone in the world even when surrounded by friends or people who love you. You think the world is hard or everyone loves you so it seems easy, and yet there's this gnawing dissatisfaction in life. You feel unseen for who you really are.
• You’ve got an open heart (even if you would never say that about yourself) and wish that people would meet your depth. You want people who are loving, compassionate and caring in your life or someone who would say things to you straight so you finally understand what is going on.
• You want friends you can trust. A romantic partner that is strong but not threatening. Someone that can lead and still listen to reason when you know what’s right in the world. You want love, REAL love and either want to create that more with a current partner or to find a love that makes your heart sing. You want to quit having your heart broken by chasing the “wrong man”.
• You can be the type to rarely have friends or you have a lot… yet when you do have a best friend, they’re so important that you’d do anything for them. It can be hard to be without a best friend because life without one is like missing a family member.
• You know there’s more to life and are scared you will never find it. You can’t adjust to what society says is good for you. You don’t understand the games and don’t know how to play them.
• You’d like to be more Authentic and speak your Truth more, and want to use “being you” to make life easier. You either let things slide or speak up and get into too many arguments.
• You have the fear that life might always be this hard. You don’t want to be in therapy for twenty years, just to have a great life!
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Where you are now:
You’re ready to take the next steps forward. There are Teachings in Enlightenment and Self Development theory you try to use, yet they aren’t working for you the best that they could be. You’re tired of feeling alone, on the Outside or generally unmet in life and want to be happy in other people’s company, feeling warmly embraced and connected to those around you.
You want someone who can give you a helping hand, to empower you in discovering your blocks and what you can do about them. You want a straight shooter who will tell you the things other people don’t like to talk about, who will support you in moving forward with a non-judgemental ear.
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We’d be a match if:
You want someone you can trust to be honest with you, instead of only telling you what you want to hear. You want to know what’s really going on and wish that people would give you the Truth instead of information they’re just parroting without knowing what they’re actually speaking about. Knowing things like,“If someone coming into your space to help you doesn’t feel like help to you, then it’s really not that much of a help after all,” or knowing other things like that, could help you on your Path of Understanding.
You want a safe place where you can say what’s going on for you, where you can OWN your Truth about who you are as a person.
You want someone you can tell all that “crazy stuff” to that other people don’t seem to get. You might see ghosts, talk to Animals and understand the connection that can come with Mother Nature and the Animal Kingdom once you go vegetarian. You might pick up things in people’s personality traits based on how their mouth curves just so and want someone who can understand that you can read things Intuitively from how people act around you… and that you’re a smart, wonderful person who sees things that others can’t in how they behave.
You want to feel like you’re a part of things, to feel connections with other people, from a place of being strong in whom you are, while still being liked. You want to be one of those people who easily gains respect from those around you without having to be argumentative. If you already get that respect, you want more people in your life who see you for who you are.
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I love to work with women who:
If you don't resonate with this list yet do with a lot of the rest of the Women's page, please contact me if you'd like more information. With all the different flavours of the Sisterhood that we exhibit, it is impossible to write down the vast majority that the Sisterhood is inherently wealthy with, in regards to personality traits.
• Are open, have beautiful hearts even if they don’t see their self as such.
• Women who don’t fit in with everyday society, are highly loving even if they have trouble expressing it outwardly.
• They’ve got a soft side or did in the past, that can show sometimes or they’ve got a hard time letting it out because they’re afraid they’ll get hurt if they use it.
• They get hurt easily and too much because they care so much and so deeply. They might wish they didn’t get hurt so easily.
• They feel hurt when Others don’t see their point of view. They wish more people saw them for who they really are!
• They have trouble finding information, Teachings and Teachers who suit them best, as they can be so open; they have trouble discerning what to keep out and what to let in. They’ve been hurt a lot and knowing how to do this is a very important thing!
Everything you want and more is right at your fingertips and the reasons why you aren’t getting the life you want can be resolved in three main keys:
1. Know who you are, what you are about and what other people in society are about.
2. Express that—with healthy boundaries--and put your life into action with resolution of what doesn’t serve you.
3. Do it all by having an open heart and learning how to use these things in service to the world.
One of the best things someone ever said to me was, “Enlightenment is simple. It might not be EASY, but it’s simple”.
And the more that you Understand, the easier that life and Spirituality can get too! If you have an issue that you want to break through; if there is someone difficult that you have a hard time with; if you have a Teaching you are following and it still isn’t working for you, all it takes is Understanding how to make it through that challenge onto the other side. When you know more about how life and society work, it makes it easier to resolve things and to naturally walk away from situations that don’t serve, while being happy with what you’ve done. This lessens the effects that other people have on you and supports you in having things work better in your daily interactions. Life gets better when who you are works for you and you have great relationships with family, a romantic partner and business as a result!
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You want to work with me one-on-one if:
• You want to learn how to create a community of high quality friends who don’t gossip about you, support you and will set you up with opportunities when they’re the best ones for you.
• You want answers now because you want to make change.
• You want to use clear Boundaries with Compassion, to serve you in your life so you’re safe, supported and doing what’s right for you. Serving Others with our Boundaries is a highly loving GIFT! It helps them learn about the effects of their Unserving actions so they can have a great life too! Life is hard for people who constantly hurt other people.
• You wonder what the point of life is!
• You want a better relationship with a mate, who thinks you’re the woman of their dreams!
• You know you are different from most of the people you meet and you want to meet more who get what you’re about.
• You want to be real in your interactions as you couldn’t fake it if you tried.
• Life is harder than it should be. You know life can be easier and you’re ready to make that change.
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The benefits of working with me:
• Learn how to be MORE AUTHENTIC and CELEBRATED in your expression of that self. Flaws matter less when you know who you are.
• Create incredibly closely bonded friendships and if you are single, have more people want to go long term romantically with you.
• Learn how to be of high value in people’s life, while being who you are. You’ll practice and discover ways of being that will have people want to support you, just because you’re YOU!
• Learn how to go beyond the games and rules of society so you win and beyond that thrive! Become a leader in society because when you know how to win by being yourself and go beyond living by the rules in the process, you become an automatic leader. Everybody wants to live that dream. When you have that secret worked out, life falls into place.
• Discover your gifts and beyond that how to use them to serve you in the world. A lot of your past problems and desires can hold the key to what your True calling is!
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My letter to you:
It’s important as women, to be supported by our sisters, for so many more reasons than most people imagine. I remember when I first started this work, that so many people thought being a strong, healthy, independent woman meant you had to be isolated, never relying on anyone; that you had to do things all by your self. Add into the fact that a lot of guys thought being a strong woman meant being a (bleeeeeeeeeep), that needing help seemed to be weak to everyone, that Spirituality meant being a flake with ones head in the clouds and Ai! No wonder so many people had a hard time figuring out who they are, what they were about and to be accepted and loved by those around them, all at the same time!
Take it from me, you can be a strong, smart, sexy, healthy and interdependant woman… one that can be loved by men and adored by the sisterhood. You don’t have to have your guard up all the time or be a pushover to do it. Facts of the matter are, is that when a beautifully hearted woman is strong, knows who she is, has good boundaries and knows when it’s safe to let herself soften, when she allows herself to be caring in situations that serve her and when she knows where to stand her ground… life becomes a beautiful playground and this is when we bloom. And sisters support each other in doing this in ways that take us further than we could go on our own. There is a special comraderie, honesty and more that comes when we live life strong as interdependent women. When we do this serving each other, we become a gift for the whole world!
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So many myths exist in life, about what it means to be a healthy strong woman who’s still soft and feminine. You don’t have to be a (bleeeeep) as a woman, in order to be effective or to get the job done. It doesn’t mean you have to be a pushover, it just means you know how to use your boundaries and that steely strong strength when needed to stand your ground, and you know how to put it away after to have fun, joy, love and laughter in your community. I want to support you in creating this in your own life, and deepening these aspects further. |
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It is my wish and intention to serve my clients to the greatest degree that I can. If what you’ve read here today resonates with you and you are between the ages of 17 and 45 years old, I’d love to hear from you! I can be contacted below by phone or e-mail and am always happy to answer any questions that you have.
Blessings on your journey and may you discover far more than what you had ever thought was possible!
~*~*~*Elle Tara
778.228.0157
elleslight@yahoo.ca
Surrey, B.C. Canada
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