Enlightenment for today's  world.          Here for Women of all Ages   This page is for Teen Girls, for more information on adult services, see the Women's page.   If you’re reading this you’re probably an amazing Teen Girl who has been profoundly hurt emotionally in the past, don't feel like you fit in and wish you felt gotten.  You are a unique individual, so please don’t think that the following lists need to apply to you.  Yet chances are: You may have been put down or treated harshly by those around you for your way of thinking.    Even if people love you, you still feel alone.  Even if everyone loves you, you don't feel as if you fit in.  If you have a lot of knowledge, either people don’t listen to you or they rely on you far too much. You may be psychic, empathic or “too sensitive” and are confused and hurt when others don’t see what's really going on. You have an uncanny understanding of the effects people’s actions have in life. You want to be seen for the REAL YOU.  You want to be happier and wish that you could bust through any problems that exist in life. You wish that people would listen. What if I told you that you can make it through ANYTHING into a happier life, by understanding your self more and learning how to work with your GIFTS?  When you understand how to use these things differently, life becomes EASIER and AMAZING.   I’ve got a special place in my heart for people who have some of the traits that I’ve listed. . .  ESPECIALLY the ones who want answers and aren’t willing to give up until they find them.  Why?  These traits are all great signs that you have some amazing talents and gifts that can emerge and bloom into a beautiful life.  All you have to do is to take the actions to learn how to use them better.  There are others out there who think like you.,   are ready to make a change just like you and are looking to connect with someone JUST LIKE YOU!  When we connect to each other from our hearts and gifts, magical things start happening and we see just what a beautiful place the world can be. If you are like many of the people that I love to work with, you have a beautiful heart (even if it doesn’t feel like that to you.)  You also need a place where it’s safe to be authentic.  You need a place where you don't feel attacked for thinking differently.   It can be confusing to live a life where you don't get the world around you. Being stressed or not fitting in, are all PERFECTLY NORMAL REACTIONS when you know there are changes that you want to make.  How do you create the changes you want? You need a place where you can speak the truth about: your opinions, what is going on for you as a person, …in a place with someone who is on your side.  If you are like the many people who want my services, you have a strong desire that people would get, see and LOVE the real you.  You want someone to FINALLY understand some of the things that you see in how life goes.  Instead, you are: feeling ignored, undervalued, lectured by people who are limited in their thoughts, beliefs and actions because they can’t open their eyes and see!     Where you are now: You want to be happy, have a great relationship with family, have more amazing friends and you’re ready to make those changes!   You know that there are things about society that need to change.  You want to know how to be a part of that Spirit, where people are doing what it takes, to have a better life.  You want MORE PEOPLE in your life who are offering love and living life at the levels you are playing at. Truth, self expression and action are the BEST ways that I've ever come across to make these things happen for you.   I can help you learn ways that help life make sense, in clear and sometimes simple ways.   When you have support in seeing the bigger picture and how the human mind works along with the limitations that society likes to impose, it becomes easier to make the right choices in life (as well as to know which ones to avoid in the process.)  Things roll off your back easier, once you understand why some things are just not about you.  There’s a HUGE difference between someone telling you why you shouldn’t let something bother you, and having a natural ability that develops, where you really DO understand where you can do something to cause an effect and where to leave someone else alone.  You create win/win situations for you and others in your life! You want to work with me one-on-one if…  (Again remember, only some of these things may apply to you): You want to get into the practice of having a community of HIGH QUALITY FRIENDS... You want exceptional people who aren’t into playing a tonne of games like telling you to do one thing, then expecting you to do something different. You want friends that support your life and truth, instead of throwing obstacles in your path, just because, “they think its fun”.  You know there has to be more to life and you want answers NOW.  Little things like understanding WHERE society has short sighted views and how to use your own knowledge to make your life go forward can make a HUGE difference!  Did you know:   It’s not REALLY help, if someone is forcing it on you against your will.  It’s only help if YOU consider it to be help.    If someone is bothering you with unwanted attention and people are saying you “should” be flattered; it’s NOT flattering if you are feeling harassed. When we draw clear boundaries with compassion, it helps others to get into reality with things so they can learn how to interact appropriately.  THIS is a GIFT!  And it helps those who would want to bother us, to go on their way with more ease. You understand certain things about people they can't see and don't understand.  They complain about a friend that they hate while continuing the friendship.  They eat too much junk food and complain they feel ill.  You understand things about how the Universe and life works, making other people think twice because the concept is too hard for them to grasp!    You might believe in things such as ghosts, faeries, Angels!   You might’ve had “imaginary” playmates as kids, talked to ghosts or wished you were an Angel and even pretended that you were one a lot.   You prefer being real over being fake and want to learn how to use the real you to have a better life.  You know that “creating a personality” wouldn't solve anything.  Chances are you couldn’t pull it off if you tried!  Life hurts more than it should. You think that life should be easier than this… and YOU ARE RIGHT.  LIFE CAN BE EASY!  The benefits of working with me: Learn to use your natural gifts and BE WHO YOU ARE WISELY.  BE CELEBRATED for how AMAZING YOU REALLY ARE.  Positive self expression makes your life happier, without being expected to be "happy" or positive all the time.  You can have a great life without always having to be in a certain mood.  Come see me and discover why! Create an amazing group of people around you that matches the qualities in life that you are offering to the world. Have friendships that are as amazing as you know you deserve!  Be seen, Understood and ENJOYED for the real, authentic you. I can help you figure out the tools for better interactions. Create healthy situations where you add more value to people’s lives.  The more authentic that you are, the more troublemakers prefer to leave you alone. That’s a pretty neat side effect and one that comes naturally. Learn the secrets behind the games, rules and nonsense bits of society that drive you absolutely crazy!  Go beyond them into creating fabulous relationships.  Learn ways to gain respect, while BEING HAPPY, AMAZING and AUTHENTIC to WHO YOU ARE. Find out how to use your gifts, and give them to the world. Want to be a leader to help change the world? Doing my program will help you to achieve that… even if you NEVER step foot on stage.   My letter to you: When you are open, and curious about the world around you, there is a loveliness to the spirit that makes my heart sing.  There are SO MANY people with beauty, who wouldn’t think to describe themselves that way. How do you know who you are? You just KNOW that there’s got to be a better way to how the world should go. You want to live an ideal or want to find people who live life how they know that it can be. The sad part is that some people don’t feel as if theyfit in and they feel more misunderstood than they know they should be.   You'll be surprised at who you can find.  If you haven’t had that experience before (or it’s been a rare thing) you’re in for a very pleasant surprise! If any of what I’ve said to you rings true, and you are between the ages of 13 and 19 years old, please contact me for a personal one-on-one session.  I am always more than happy to answer any questions that you have. It is my pleasure to serve and I hope to see you soon. In love and spirit, ~*~*~*~Elle Tara   To book an appointment call or e-mail: 778.228.0157 elleslight@yahoo.ca Surrey, B.C.